talk is talk
This entry was posted on Thursday, July 05, 2007 3:53 PM and is filed under uh-oh.
Why is it that there is so much talking behind people's backs in lamb communities? Keeping resellers away aside, there is just way too many lies, rumours, secrets and backstabbing going on with people who are supposed to care, appreciate and help each other.
I speak to person A who tells me something about person B doing something bad to person C. Person B trusted person A and cant understand why person A would say things like that about her. And what does person C have to say about this? who is telling the truth? Well it doesnt matter who is telling the truth because person A can just blame person D for everything.
I have been stuck in the middle of that situation a number of times just this week for god's sake. I just want to be able to trust the people I am talking to. I dont want to have to keep secrets. I want to be, and continue to be upfront and honest. I TRY to get to the bottom of things and I am thankful to people who appreciate that about me.
As for the ones who make up exuberant lies about me and talk behind my back, just speak up, tell me to my face so i can make some progress on my attempt to weed out the ones like you.
oh. And i DO know there is a difference between making a mistake and deliberatly spreading lies. If you make a mistake, apologize and come clean. That's all I ask for me and for others in the lamb world. There doesnt have to be drama. There doesnt have to be elitists groups. There doesnt have be backstabbing and friendships destroyed.
I love having lamb communites to go to and I love having lamb friends to talk to about lamb. Dont let the bad take over.
